_____________________it may sound absurb, but don't be naive. even heroes have the right to bleed.
Saturday, April 22, 2006 ; 1:03 PM
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the roborovskis i saw in the pet shop. how cute!! (:
Who needs damn inconsistent heartwarmers cum heartbreakers when I've got friends who can make me smile all the time?
Anyway, doing some self reflection here. I think everyone has their own flaws which aren't even known by the person himself/herself, and sometimes to the extent that their undiscovered flaws cause hurt to someone else, and may even put his/her friendship or relationship with someone in jeopardy. We judge people and comment about them, but what's judgement without truth? I know I have my own flaws, and maybe if I put myself in other's shoes, then I would understand how they feel about me, or perhaps what a shitty friend I've been. Ask yourself, 'Would I like to hear or see the same things which i said or did to my friend being told or done to me?' 'Would I feel offended if someone told me that or did that to me?' 'Would what I say or do be of the better for him/her to discover his/her weakness, even if the words or actions might hurt?' I appreciate my friends being truthful and frank to me, so that I would know my weakness and change for the better. And I think their actions mean twice as much to me. I know I've hurt some of my friends with my words and actions before, and I should start thinking in their perspective and avoid such. We all should learn to put ourselves in other's shoes, and in that way, perhaps the world would be a better place. (:
And I've learnt not to keep anger inside of ourselves. Anger is a curve blade which in turn stabs you harder than ever. Keeping it is even worse. It gets the better of you, and the one who suffers the most from this would probably be yourself. So, anger-management! Haha. Stay happy!
Hee hee. Anyway, going out now. Shopping!
Tell me a story where we all change
And we'd live our lives together and not enstranged
I didn't lose my mind it was mine to give away
Couldn't stay to watch me cry, you didn't have the time
So I softly slip away...
No regrets they don't work, no regrets they only hurt
Sing me a love song, drop me a line
Suppose it's just a point of view, but they tell me I'm doing fine
I don't want to hate but that's all you've left me with
A bitter aftertaste and a fantasy of how we all could live ;
nobody said it would be this hard.
xoxo -
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